Thought that I should share this little nugget with you:
A group of 4 of us had just finished lunch and we were sitting in a little park of sorts, enjoying the sunshine and live band when 3 women came up to us offering free bottles of water. My friend J naturally assumed that there was a catch, but those ladies said that they were just going around giving free water, no catch. No problems then! So J took a bottle, and so did I. The 4 of us sat in a row and A was sitting at the very end, he reached out and was about to take the bottle of water from the lady when she said, "God bless you!"
A goes, "Oh no, I can't take no Jesus water!" I should clarify that all 4 of us are atheists (we're scientists and engineers) and obviously all hell broke loose after the Jesus water comment. The 3 on 4, Christians vs Atheists debate was on. It didn't matter what the Christian 3 said, there was no way that they would change our minds. We just didn't have a big hole in our chest that needed to be filled up with Jesus. All 3 of them had previously gone through some sort of personal tragedy - one's daughter had died in a car accident at age 17, another had battled breast cancer and survived and the husband of one was unfaithful and left her while she was pregnant - and while I sympathized with them, whatever they were trying to preach to us still sounded like fluff.
My rebuttle was this: If God had bothered to take the time out to tide them through their individual sufferings, what about the hundreds of thousands, no millions, millions of hungry African kids who end up dying from starvation, AIDS, malaria etc? He obviously paid no attention to their plight. As usual (and expected), they sidestepped my question and rambled on about something else. Why is it that these people can never answer questions straight up?
One of the things that annoyed me the most was when one of the Christian ladies said something along the lines of how all human emotions, trigger, feelings come from the heart. In the metaphorical sense, in books, poems, writings etc yeah sure. Her example was that if someone broke into my home and threatened my family, I would leap into action because my heart is making all the choices. Um no. I countered that if you want to get scientific about it, the heart is just an organ that pumps blood and that all choices we make, rational or irration, come from the brain. When we're in love it's because the brain is pumping out the happy juices, when we're leaping into action to save our threated family from a home invasion, the adrenaline is flowing and so on. She looked shocked and let out a big, "NOOOOO!" whilst grabbing my hand dramatically. Her simple explanation is that Jesus lives in her heart and she's in love with Jesus and her heart is bursting with Jesus love. One can't help but roll your eyes when you hear that kind of lunacy.
Long story short, they walked away without converting any of us or changing our minds. They wanted to pray with "can't take no Jesus water" A but he declined. He said that they were most welcomed to pray for him but he flatly refused to pray with them. We left not long after them and I gotta say that was a pretty eventful day for us.
Thank you for the story, found it entertaining. I also think it’s a little funny that my friend and I were discussing something somewhat related to this just last night. The wiring from the instinctual part of brain to our rational brain is wired very strongly, the wiring back from the rational to the instinctual isn’t as well developed as the other way around. That’s why we will have instinctual override, that’s why we will override our rational mind and operate on instinct at times. I guess that could be what she is calling the heart making the decisions. It has a reasonable and sensible scientific explanation, some people just prefer to think a magician is living in their internal organs.